Wednesday, May 9, 2007

As time goes by.

having lunch at Jade Express.

Beloved XY, smsed me quite late last night, really frightened me with what she wrote. Some stuffs were bothering her. Some stuffs that don't really matter to her. But she is involved. Poor her. Cant settle own stuffs still have to help out OTHER people for settling long-distance relationship problem.


Beloved, listen to me, it is not because you are stupid or wat, you are too kind and too pitied on him. It does not work! A real man won't give up the world so easily just because get dumped by gf. If he does, just let it be, he does not worth to live in this world. Don't waste ur time and effort on counselling or teman-ing wt him. Whose problem actually? Let them settle it. Not you. Since you insisted to lend a hand, just make sure that silly matter would not interrupt ur focus on study. I just feel silly, since the another party does not care at all, why do u, the third party, have to bother so much?


For the another case, just get use to stay with them. We all come from the same world. Stay under one roof, need toleration and consideration. Bear with it. I will always be there with you.


Things just change without noticing. When i chatted wt Grandson YH. He felt down for the current situation. He felt those people in imu are becoming shattered. No longer like how they mixed up previously. Time changes everything..... different environment, different social life, different thoughts making up different people. No need to be sad. Just learn to accept the change. Think optimistically, son! Shall bring u to watch spiderman 4 next season. Ahaha.



True friends seldom talk but cherish the relationship all the time. Friendship wont easily fade away as time goes by! Cheers for friendship, everyone!


1010 report and math assignment are killing me!!!!

1 comment:

Huey Ying said...

sometimes when u conclude sth just by hearing from one party, it may make things sound vy bad.. pretty unfair for the other parties, don u think? =)

p/s - if wanna comfort/teman a fren in trouble, then one shudnt comfort and be nice to that person ad, then backstab ppl behind rite? if one refused to be there for a fren, one shud just voice out and not by backstabbing after being nice comforting ppl.. correct me if i'm wrong.. =)