Friday, February 25, 2011

说出来

麦兜说:

有事情是要说出来的,不要等着对方去领悟,因为对方不是你,不知道你想要什么,等到最后只能是伤心和失望,尤其是感情

有什么不可告人的?
有什么不能说出口?
有什么要收收埋埋?

人要适时的表达自己。人家不是你肚子里的虫,怎么可能了解你的想法?除非那个人挑通眼眉,观察细致,或你的额头有显字咯。不然到了海枯石烂,别人还是猜你不透。到最后,自个儿自责,失望,难过。何必呢?
通常误会的造成就是因为你没有表达想法,没有表明立场。

有什么,说出来嘛,多个人知道,多个人用脑,多个好主意。何乐而不为?

这是要告诉我自己的。

真的很佩服那些直话直说,直肠直肚的人,你们有何来的勇气呀?

说话的技巧还有很多学问。要适当。要适时。要适人。 =3

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Essere morto, e risuscitare dai morti


I miss those blue eyes, how you kiss me at night
I miss the way we sleep
Like there's no sunrise, like the taste of your smile
I miss the way we breathe

But I never told you what I should have said
No, I never told you, I just held it in

And now I miss everything about you
I can't believe it, I still want you
And after all the things we've been through
I miss everything about you, without you

I see your blue eyes every time I close mine
You make it hard to see
Where I belong to, when I'm not around you
It's like I'm not with me

But I never told you what I should have said
No, I never told you, I just held it in

And now I miss everything about you
(Still, you're gone)
I can't believe it, I still want you
(And I'm lovin' you, I never should've walked away)
After all the things we've been through
(I know it's never gonna come again)
I miss everything about you, without you


YOU amazed me!
Don't feel stupid of whatever you have did, but be happy because you finally did it!
Like i always say, never try never know.
Somebody told me that, Give a huge hit to the wall, if it does not tumble down, make a u-turn then.
Does not matter if the outcome is good or bad, at least you tried before it is too late, you will not regret!

p/s: If I never step back, If I keep moving on, you, me, on?

then i saw this phrase,

Someday someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else.





nahhhh never!

I am looking for YOU!

Decision. Decision. Decision.

I hate making decision. I am afraid that I will regret someday.
You might think that how hard would that be to just decide a thing? Yes or No? just like Black and White? However, I always put myself in the Grey, between yes and no. Me stupid, I confused myself all the time.

Maybe just plainly because I think too much. At the end of the day, I lost my direction. I do not know what I want at the first place. Totally messed up my own mind.

Why do I think so much? come on laaaaaa, you are not prime minister, not that your decision will pull down the country.
Why do I care so much of others? harlo, it is for yourself, what to do with others?
MAKE UP YOUR MIND!! WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?
*knock knock the brain*

Not only one, but quite a few of them, asked me before. why do you think so far away? think too much laaa you. that does not bring any better to you sometime, instead it may screw you yourself. well, i pretty agree with that, past experiences told me that, when i finally made up my mind, i watched the chance just slipped away from my hand. i was so regretted i never grip it tightly.

okok. decision made. hope it will be good =)

Sunday, July 11, 2010

It is not said but I always know




Little House - Amanda Seyfried

I love this place
But it's haunted without you
My tired heart is beating so slow
Our hearts sing this
That we want it we want it
Our hearts sing 'cause
We do not know we do not know

(Chorus:
To light the night
To help us grow
To help us grow
It is not said I always know)

You can catch me
Don't you run
Don't you run
If you live another day
In this happy little house
The fire's here to stay

(Chorus:
To light the night
To help us grow
To help us grow
It is not said I always know)

Please don't make a fuss
It won't go away
The wonder of it all
The wonder that I make
I am here to stay
I am here to stay
To stay


This song gives me chill.
I haven't watch this movie yet, or it has not release yet?
I don't know. But I just watched the trailer, I wanna watch it so badly, or either read the book will do.
I think it's gonna be very touching!! It's gonna make me tear :'(

It's 5.16 am now, and i am so awake!!! haihhhhhhhhhh

Congrats to Germany who won the 3rd place!!!

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

群

有一个问题
我一直理解不了

为什么人群中会分帮派?
明明就是人嘛 总是一大群里 分成一小撮 一小撮

人有群分 物以类聚
合则聚 不合则散

志趣相投 志同道合
拥有共同话题 兴趣 想法 就变成那一小撮
难免旁人很难融入
毕竟哪种默契 思想 文化 需要时间来磨练

年级相若 何有思想之别?
皆因思想层次有差异

朋友都说 长越大 越没有哪个动力去认识新朋友 就连旧朋友也懒得应酬
我猜
人越大 要考虑的事情越多 根本就没有哪个闲情去调节那个思想差异
久而久之
人变得孤僻 找个可以聊得来的伴也没几个 倾向与世隔绝

我说
社交圈不需大 但要广
同手足不需多 但要真

聊得来 大可深交
聊不来 片面之交

不需为找不到话题而尴尬
为那宁静氛围而感到舒服

Sunday, May 23, 2010

找自己

陶喆-找自己

昨天晚上做了个梦 我走进撒哈拉沙漠 空无一人站在太阳下
摄 氏六十六点六度 快要焚化我的眼珠 突然一场大雨降下来
汗水被那雨水冲走 结束四十天的折磨 荒漠一转变成了绿洲
彩虹下有一棵大树  大树上有一颗苹果 咬下一口我就全明白
可不可以让我再 让我再一次 回到那个美丽时光里 找自己

哗啦啦啦啦啦 天在下雨
哗 啦啦啦啦啦 云在哭泣
哗啦啦啦啦啦 滴入我的心 oh yeah~
不用说我只会胡思乱想 不用跟我说我只会妄想
哗啦啦啦啦 啦 让我去淋雨
我只希望能够再 能够再一次 回到那个美丽时光里 找自己

挤在公车像个沙丁鱼 上班下班每天是规律 这么多的 人到哪里去
每个面孔写着无奈 爸爸妈妈彼此没有爱 难道这就是生命的真理
可不可以让我再 让我再一次 回到那个美丽时光里 去逃避

躲 在我的屋檐下面 OH~
睡在我的被单里面 OH~
听着细雨滴滴答答 滴滴答答 滴滴答答

不知成几何时,发觉我迷失了自我,迷失了自己。
一直跟着别人的尾巴,被别人牵着鼻子走。
要找回自己 找回自我
不是为别人而活
要为自己的精彩而生活
加油!!

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

当爱与不爱



黃威爾-愛與不愛

天天一起看海 脱离现实的存在
我们牵手拥抱 填满了空白 很愉快

和你一起计划将来 做你最好的依赖
但未来没有来 打算打不开
沉默暗示你不想等待

当爱与不爱一样让人心痛
我们都无话可说
有过多少快乐 就有多少痛
都在揪着

当爱与不爱一样让人心痛
不要松开我的手
故事走到最后 也许还没最后
不要带走 你的天空

爱情已被现实摔坏 痕迹都留不下来
我们像是小孩 现在才明白
眼泪诉说你想要离开

Monday, April 12, 2010

不想說明 只想反應



陳奕迅:无人之境


讓理智在叫著冷靜冷靜 還恃住年少氣盛
讓我對著 衝動背著宿命 渾忘自己的姓
沉睡的凶猛在蘇醒 完全為你現形
這個世界最壞罪名 叫太易動情 但我喜歡這罪名

驚天動地 只 可惜天地亦無情
不敢有風 不敢有聲 這愛情無人證
飛天遁地 貪一刻的樂極忘形
好想說謊 不眨眼睛 這愛情無人性

若 世界陷進大騙局裡面 朋友亦難以發現
共你隔著空在秘密通電 挑戰道德底線
如若早三五年相見 何來內心交戰
我信與你繼續亂纏 難再 有發展 但我想跟你亂纏

驚天動地 只可惜天地亦無情
不敢有風 不敢有聲 這愛情無人證
飛天遁地 貪一刻的樂極忘形
好 想說謊 不眨眼睛 似進入無人境

即使間整個約會情調幽暗似地下城
還是算溫馨 多麼想跟你散步橋上把臂看著風景
但是我清醒  月亮總不肯照亮情慾深處那道背影
你我像快快樂樂同遊在異境 浪漫到一起惹絕症

不想說明 只想反應

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Girls' talk

It's been long. really really long.

This 20 minutes. Not too long. Not too short.
But it's enough. We chatted, we laughed, we shared, we had fun.

That's what I have been missing all the while, since I came back.


*would be better with comfy couch + refreshing liquor. :p*

I am SO looking forward for the perhentian trip! please make it work~~

Friday, April 9, 2010

执着

太刺激了!!!不到一个月又有一桩喜事!!!真期待下个月轮到谁。。。呵呵
不过。。昨晚有个朋友告诉我他们分手了。。。。世事难料。。。

做人无须太过于执着。

珊分析,

以她本身为例,
她父母亲很执着于成绩学业,但她成绩总是平平无奇,过得去更毕业了。

我们的朋友,
她父母很开通,怕她女儿很宅,总要她多看世界,但她成绩就属厉害。

我们的朋友,
她家教甚严,保守派,在家乖乖女,在外世界女。

我再加以研究,

我的朋友,
他父母不允许在学交往,他偏偏从小瞒住家人,偷尝爱情果。

我的朋友,
他家境中上,要什么给什么,但给他一笔钱,他会一毛也不花,全数奉还。

做人真的无须太过于执着。
太过于执着,通常都会产生反效果,事与愿违。

也许我不可太过于执着于我的原则,我真的很怕我得到的会是相反与我想要的。
那大锅了!!
天灵灵地灵灵